One of the toughest realities we have to face as men is that for most of us, getting laid is a form of gambling, and the game is strongly rigged against us. Think back to the last time you had a date. C’mon … it wasn’t that long ago, was it? Didn’t you find yourself, either before or during the evening, wondering things like, “when should I make a move? Am I going to get some tonight? Will I get lucky?” And that’s the bottom line… for too many of us; dealing with women is a matter of luck, meaning it is something which is out of our control.
But hold on a second. What if you could design your own “game of chance” where YOU set the rules? What if you could play a game of poker where you get to pick the cards you’re dealt, you get to see her hand before you bet, and you get to borrow money from her to bet against her? You’d play that game 24 hrs a day, that’s what.
And this is what I want to do: put your back in control by teaching you hoe to create, on a repeatable, predictable basis, the kind of results you want with the kind of woman you want, where and when you want it. Does it sound like I’m talking kak? I hope so, it goes against the beliefs of our culture; a culture that teaches you that “attraction” can’t be created, that it has to be a matter of “chemistry” that it is there or it isn’t.
PART ONE: THERE IS NO SUCH THING
Ok. Here is the 1st key secret to understanding any form of influence or persuasion, in any form of life.
There is no such “thing” as love. There’s no such “thing” as passion. There’s no such “thing” as attraction, or chemistry, or lust.
I know what you’re saying. That’s the problem… for most of you, most of the time, there’s no such thing. There’s just boredom, frustration, and playing with Mr. Winky.
But that’s not what I’m talking bout, so pay close attention. I’m not saying that ppl don’t experience states of “attraction” or “chemistry” or “lust”. What I’m saying is that these states are processes that take place inside the human mind and body. Which means that they are states that CAN BE SUMMONED FORTH AND DIRECTED AT WILL!!!
Here’s an example: “Falling in love” exposed!!!
Ok. Since I’m being rather general and theoretical here let’s get a bit more specific and talk bout what every woman dreams about: falling in love.
Now, based on what I’ve said so far, do you think I believe “love” is based on some mysterious “chemistry” that flows between 2 ppl? Maybe it’s caused by a but-naked little angel named Cupid who shoots an arrow into ur ass?
NO. Here’s hoe ppl fall in love: 1st, understand you do NOT fall in love with some1 when you are in their presence. No. you fall in love you’re off by yourself, thinking about them afterwards. This is why it is so hypnotically powerful. Because you are doing it to yourself and ppl are always their own best hypnotists.
Here’s how it happens: you go out with someone, maybe even one date. And then you go home, and you’re laying there, thinking about them. And, you form an image of them in your mind. And, as you do that, you start to list to yourself all the qualities about them that you like, “She’s so ___, she’s so ____, she’s really ____.” Maybe then you picture you and them having lots of fun in all sorts of situations.
Then you get that warm feeling right in your solar plexus, and then, the nail in your coffin, you say her name to yourself 2 or 3 times. If you’re really a geek, maybe you even dance around the house singing it. Or you possibly go around bringing up her name in every conversation.
Sound familiar? Now, as you recall the times in your past when you did this, were you then able to stay cool, on control of yourself AND the relationship? Or were you calling her every day, always wanting to see her, eager to kiss her ass, to the point where she, of course, dropped you?
Here’s the point: “love” is a process people do to themselves! It’s not a “thing” you trip over or a “hole” you fall into.
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