The penultimate conundrum

I thought long and hard about what I was going to put in this update. To be honest the events that happened earlier this week completely caught me off guard and actually made me doubt everything I thought I knew.
But don’t get me wrong, I can supply you all with a multitude of tips on what one can do or say to improve your odds of keeping your dream woman. And yes, implementing these techniques would bring both you and her happiness and fun but let us be honest with ourselves, that would be dishonest and if you really think about it immoral. This may sound harsh but let’s examine using a reference everyone should comprehend.
From a young age we are all taught about what a person’s IQ represents. But if you delve deeper the IQ is not a measure of intelligence but the potential the person has based on a set of questions the average person is expected to understand based on what is considered to be the educational norm. There is also something referred to as EQ (emotional quota) which represents the potential a person possesses to have productive inter- and intra- personal interactions. With relationships there is a similar potential grading methodology, which I will refer to as PIMP Quota (PQ).
The measurement of all IQ, EQ and PQ is presumed to be unbiased; this simply is not the truth. Well there may be a statistical average one cannot simply measure the potential of 2 different people using the same standards. Each of them all has external factors beyond anyone’s control that affect the outcomes of the measurements. For example one might have genetic advantages or disadvantages.
(In case anyone has not yet grasped the symbolism behind PQ the “higher” a person’s PQ the more successful they should be in a relationship)
The sad part of this all is that any person can increase their Quota by understanding the criteria with which the Quota’s are measured. Once you understand what key factors are looked at you can train yourself in those areas. For example there are sites and books that will “train” you to increase your IQ by illustrating what is looked for and giving you tips on how to improve your responses for increase you IQ. In the same way in the 1st two topics of this group I gave you tips on how to better your chance to get the woman that would normally demand a high PQ.
So yes, by practising and implementing these techniques you can achieve better results in PQ tests (relationships). But in the end that is not who you are. Be honest with yourself, would you really want to be with a woman who would not accept you as yourself, but only after you have used techniques of other people, in actuality she is not dating you but rather dating the mask you have put on.
To be fair once you have convinced her to give you a change you will eventually show her more of yourself and hopefully she will stay with you, but there is also the chance she will dump your ass.
But before I ramble on for too long and forget my point let me make it:
What I have shown you so far is basically your CV; it will only let you get your foot in the door. But ethically I cannot bring myself to give tips on how to manipulate the woman into staying with you because once you two start a relationship emotions will most likely start to develop. I have used these techniques in the past and they have worked almost flawlessly each time but it was my last relationship that has brought about my change in heart. From the beginning I decided that I would not use any of my usual charms but rather just be who I am and very soon emotions started to develop. And now looking back I am glad I didn’t. True, she decided not to stay with me but if I did use them on her and I had eventually hurt her I would not have been able to forgive myself.
So if you would like to use my previous advise to meet the women by all means go ahead, but do yourself (and her) a favour, once you two are together don’t use tricks or play games in an attempt to force her into staying with you; but rather let things develop along a natural course.